Well, Gotcha day was actually yesterday, but I kinda ran out of time to post yesterday. Kai kept us pretty busy!
Yesterday morning we took a cab to Jonah House and were there an hour early! For some reason we thought it was going to take longer to get there. Anyway, to kill some time we walked up and down the street that Jonah House was one.
A few blocks up the road was a streetfront grilled sandwich shop. We decided to stop in there. The shop was very simple, very rough. From the outside it looked like a place you might not want to eat at. But there was a long line of locals so we knew it must be pretty good. You should have seen the image of Adam standing in a crowd of Taiwanese with the lead cook yelling orders in Chinese. Adam towered above those around him and looked so out of place. I took a picture, but a picture cannot capture what it was like.
The shop owners were very nice. Adam just held up two fingers and pointed at the homemade Egg McMuffin. The shop owners' elementary shool aged boy was taking money and pouring drinks and spoke some English. We got a lot of looks and I am sure they didn't see too many Americans stopping in to eat there. The sandwiches were surprisingly excellent!
Before we left the shop Adam gave the boy a King Sized Hersheys Chocolate Bar. Characteristically the boy did not show any response or look up at Adam, but Adam said when the boy turned away he had a huge smile on his face.
Yes, Adam is really getting a kick out of handing out Hersheys' Bars as they always get a great response out of the sometimes stoic Taiwanese. They can't help smiling. Even the taxi drivers!
JONAH HOUSE
Well we rang the doorbell a few times and finally saw the call/intercom box to let them know we were there. A boy who was probably 8 years old opened the door and ushered us through the VERY quiet halls. We met Maria, the social worker who led us to the second floor nursery area. I started to cry as soon as I saw the nursery! Then through the glass we saw a caregiver lift up Kai. We recognized him right away.
Kai was cuddly, but very quiet, expressionless and calm when they handed him to us. We had about 20 minutes to hold him and kiss him. He really looked at our faces a lot. He was very curious about us.
We got our first smile out of Kai when his Daddy helped him to stand up on the floor. It was such a relief to see that smile. After spending some time holding him, we sat with Maria who reviewed Kai's schedule with us and gave us the instructions for his formula. We presented her with some candy boxes for the caregivers and then pulled out the baby items. When I pulled them out of the bag she said, "Ooooh, Gerber!". So I definitely recommend sticking with their specific requests when bringing baby items.
The care givers said their goodbyes to Kai and one of them even teared up a little. They really love the children. We were then allowed to take pictures of waiting children. We then left.
I would describe the overall experience as a quiet, gentle introduction. We had tried to have realistic expectations which I think made the experience very nice. We were there for maybe 40 minutes max.
On the cab ride Kai was still very quiet and expressionless. I was a little worried about the lack of sound and verbalization. Well, we have no worries now. Once we were settled at the hotel, Kai had gotten used to us and brightened right up. He is VERY cuddly. He did not display any symptoms of overstimulation at all. We have had no eye contact problems either. He will gaze into your eyes for long periods. I am glad as this will help with bonding. He is not fussy at all and is just adorable. He is already beginning to bond and wants to keep you in view at all times.
Kai is very strong. He is crawling and seems like he can't wait to stand up and walk.
Today we will head to the AIT for Kai's visa and then we will try and do some more sightseeing.
I think I shared pictures with everyone via snapfish, but if not, just email me and I will send you a link for our most recent pictures.