Tuesday, December 13, 2005
Sunday, December 04, 2005
Latest photos
Not so sure about the slide!
Swinging at the neighborhood park!
Kai takes a break from all the Christmas shopping!
Eary T-giving with Brad, Amanda, Mom, Dad, Nathan, Ashley, Me and Kai.
Monday, November 14, 2005
Coming Home!
Well our last day in Taipei was enjoyable. We booked a morning tour of the NOrthern Coast with the same guide we hired for the night tour, Jack. He speaks English well and was very pleasant. If you are interested in having him do a tour while you are there, I will send you his contact information. We saw another Temple in Keelung, which is a port area. This one had a large outdoor area with some huge statutes. I will post photos. They also had a nice gift shop. A good place to buy little trinkets at reasonable costs. We then went to a state park on the coast near Keelung that is known for its very interesting and unique sandstone formations. There is one in particular that is shaped like the head of an Egyptian Queen. There must not be too many personal injury lawsuits there as there were lots of walkways without railings that were a little precarious.
Finally, we ended our tour with a stop at a handicraft market in Taipei. I purchased a chop, which is a type of Chinese carved stamp with your name written in Chinese. I had Kai's Chinese name engraved on it. The handle has a carved rooster since Kai was born in the year of the Rooster.
After our tour we had a nice lunch at our hotel and then spent the afternoon packing. We checked out late and took a bus to the airport. I have changed my mind, the taxi was better. The bus made a lot of extra stops that made the savings not really worth it as we already had a long day ahead of us.
The flight from Taipei from LAX had terrible turbulence. I wasn nauseaous for the first half of the trip and definitely could not sleep. We had a bassinet for Kai which was nice. He really didn't fuss too much. At one point though he was crying and wouldn't calm with a bottle. I adjusted him on my lap and his eyes caught the chairside TV and he was instanly transfixed! This child at eight months does not know how to eat from a spoon, but he likes to watch TV and is dying for a coke! Yep, whenever one of us had a can of coke (our comfort food) he would grab for it and try to pull it to his lips and stick his lips out like he knows how to sip from a can!
By the way the vending machines there mostly do not sell American sodas. They do sell Asparagus juice though if you really have a hankering for some.
When we finally made it to LAX I was a zombie. We ate mexican food and tried to stay awake for the layover. The flight from California was 4.3 hours on Delta/Song. They had chairside TVs with movies, inflight trivia games (with lots of fashion and hair questions . . . weird), music, direct TV channels like CNN, Cartoon Network etc. etc. It helped pass the time. This time Kai was on our laps, which his preferred way of sleeping. When we landed in California we stopped to put Kai's little feet on the ground as he is a citizen automatically once he arrives in the US. Kai was pretty excited.
Kai was always very quiet when were out in public in Taipei. The Taiwanese people would try to coax him to smile or laugh and he would just stare. Once we hit California he was laughing at every Chinese person he saw as if to say, "HEY, you are here too??" There was Chinese airport worker at LAX who was clucking his tongue at Kai and Kai was just squirming and laughing. I also think Kai perks up in the cooler, fresh air over here.
Our friend Ashley picked us up at the airport and had meals and flowers and welcome home signs for us at our house. So sweet of her. We slept most of the day and had her lasagna for dinner. You can only guess how much that was appreciated. We were SOOOoooo tired.
Kai woke up overnight several times in a little bit of terror upon not recognizing the new place, we finally put him between us on the king Bed so that he would see us if he woke. He seems to be doing better tonight. We are really looking forward to some routine in his life as it will really be good for him.
Well, this will probably be it for the blog other than a few photos. Thank you to all of you for your prayers and good wishes and advice. We have enjoyed sharing this trip with you.
Love, Adam Connie and Kai
Finally, we ended our tour with a stop at a handicraft market in Taipei. I purchased a chop, which is a type of Chinese carved stamp with your name written in Chinese. I had Kai's Chinese name engraved on it. The handle has a carved rooster since Kai was born in the year of the Rooster.
After our tour we had a nice lunch at our hotel and then spent the afternoon packing. We checked out late and took a bus to the airport. I have changed my mind, the taxi was better. The bus made a lot of extra stops that made the savings not really worth it as we already had a long day ahead of us.
The flight from Taipei from LAX had terrible turbulence. I wasn nauseaous for the first half of the trip and definitely could not sleep. We had a bassinet for Kai which was nice. He really didn't fuss too much. At one point though he was crying and wouldn't calm with a bottle. I adjusted him on my lap and his eyes caught the chairside TV and he was instanly transfixed! This child at eight months does not know how to eat from a spoon, but he likes to watch TV and is dying for a coke! Yep, whenever one of us had a can of coke (our comfort food) he would grab for it and try to pull it to his lips and stick his lips out like he knows how to sip from a can!
By the way the vending machines there mostly do not sell American sodas. They do sell Asparagus juice though if you really have a hankering for some.
When we finally made it to LAX I was a zombie. We ate mexican food and tried to stay awake for the layover. The flight from California was 4.3 hours on Delta/Song. They had chairside TVs with movies, inflight trivia games (with lots of fashion and hair questions . . . weird), music, direct TV channels like CNN, Cartoon Network etc. etc. It helped pass the time. This time Kai was on our laps, which his preferred way of sleeping. When we landed in California we stopped to put Kai's little feet on the ground as he is a citizen automatically once he arrives in the US. Kai was pretty excited.
Kai was always very quiet when were out in public in Taipei. The Taiwanese people would try to coax him to smile or laugh and he would just stare. Once we hit California he was laughing at every Chinese person he saw as if to say, "HEY, you are here too??" There was Chinese airport worker at LAX who was clucking his tongue at Kai and Kai was just squirming and laughing. I also think Kai perks up in the cooler, fresh air over here.
Our friend Ashley picked us up at the airport and had meals and flowers and welcome home signs for us at our house. So sweet of her. We slept most of the day and had her lasagna for dinner. You can only guess how much that was appreciated. We were SOOOoooo tired.
Kai woke up overnight several times in a little bit of terror upon not recognizing the new place, we finally put him between us on the king Bed so that he would see us if he woke. He seems to be doing better tonight. We are really looking forward to some routine in his life as it will really be good for him.
Well, this will probably be it for the blog other than a few photos. Thank you to all of you for your prayers and good wishes and advice. We have enjoyed sharing this trip with you.
Love, Adam Connie and Kai
Thursday, November 10, 2005
Last Night in Taipei!
Well, this is our last full night in Taipei as tomorrow we will be heading home. This morning we took the MRT to Xinbeitou. There are Hot Springs there. It is a 15- 20 minute uphill walk to the springs. It is pretty. There were pretty little parks and some live folk music. I think I prefer to see more architecture than the natural sights. If you are a hiker you might enjoy this. I like to hike, but am not really prepared for it on this trip and it was a hot day.
This afternoon we went back to Taipei 101 because we saw they had a food court. We anticipated a wide variety of options and even American places since the mall area had so many American stores. Well, imagine a food court with about 30 different Chinese restaurants!! (then throw in 1 KFC, 1 Subway and 1 MCdonalds! We were missing American food so we looked to KFC . . . very different from here. SO don't think you wil go to an American restaurant here and have American food.
This evening we visited the Confucious and Bao-An temples. These are right next to each other. I have to say the Temples may be my favorite thing here. (If you can go to Longshan Temple in the evening on a Sat. or Sunday that is the best. The people are as interesting as the Temple itself). There were monks in the Confucious Temple playing recorder music. They are just SO beautiful and fascinating. I would love to have a really good guide to read about the symbols etc.
We then went to Shihlin Market. It is partially indoors. I do not like it at all. It was very flea-markety. The smaller markets are much better in my opinion. The market by Longshan temple was interesting. The market at Danshui next to the MRT station is very nice.
Tomorrow morning we will be taking a tour of the Northern Coast area then packing up to head home. Say a prayer for us and for little Kai!
This afternoon we went back to Taipei 101 because we saw they had a food court. We anticipated a wide variety of options and even American places since the mall area had so many American stores. Well, imagine a food court with about 30 different Chinese restaurants!! (then throw in 1 KFC, 1 Subway and 1 MCdonalds! We were missing American food so we looked to KFC . . . very different from here. SO don't think you wil go to an American restaurant here and have American food.
This evening we visited the Confucious and Bao-An temples. These are right next to each other. I have to say the Temples may be my favorite thing here. (If you can go to Longshan Temple in the evening on a Sat. or Sunday that is the best. The people are as interesting as the Temple itself). There were monks in the Confucious Temple playing recorder music. They are just SO beautiful and fascinating. I would love to have a really good guide to read about the symbols etc.
We then went to Shihlin Market. It is partially indoors. I do not like it at all. It was very flea-markety. The smaller markets are much better in my opinion. The market by Longshan temple was interesting. The market at Danshui next to the MRT station is very nice.
Tomorrow morning we will be taking a tour of the Northern Coast area then packing up to head home. Say a prayer for us and for little Kai!
Wednesday, November 09, 2005
Martyrs Shrine; Danshui; Taipei 101
Hi all,
Yesterday was a big day. In the morning we walked the quarter of a mile or so down from our hotel to the Martyrs' Shrine. The architecture was amazing. They have a changing of the guard every hour that is a treat to see. The marching and the drill are similar to what we would see the U.S. military do with the grace of Tai Chi thrown in. Sharp, but also graceful. You will want to get there earlier than the top of the hour as the guards begin their march before the hour. I do not recommend walking to the site. The smog and congestion are heavy and if the walk had been any longer I would have been very reluctant to have Kai out in it. We took a taxi back which is easy enough to do as the taxis are everywhere.
At 11:00, Adam took the MRT down to the AIT to pick up Kai's visa. In the afternoon we took the MRT red line North to Danshui. We had to change trains at Beitou, but stayed on the red line. At Danshui the train station is waterfront on the Pacific Ocean. On the Street side of the station are a line of bus stops. The very first bus Stop is for the #26 Bus which takes you to the Fisherman's Wharf area. It has shops, a cool suspension bridge and lots of fresh ocean air. You might be surprised how welcome this is after a few days in the smog and exhaust in the city ( which is very bad, my biggest complaint, Taipei needs some environmentalists). The shopping at Fishermans wharf is not great or anything. It was just a nice walk. Kai is usually very quiet when we are outside our hotel room, but he was laughing and squirming and having a good old time. I think he really is ready for the beach life.
While at Fisherman's Wharf we were overwhelmed with hunger and stopped in at the Fisherman's Wharf Pub. They did not have western food at all and no bottled water or cokes. I ordered a Heinekin just to have something bottled and ended up with a 1 litre can!! The waitress was pretty surprised when I ordered it and I discovered why when she brought it to the table.
While dining we were treated with a live performance of Achy-Breaky Heart Taiwan style!! That song is funny in any country, but especially in Taiwan after a liter of Heinekin while STILL trying to fight jet lag!
We returned on the 26 bus to Danshui and by 6:30 the town was lit up. There was a waterside night market that included a Chinese puppetry performance of some children's musical fairytale. The people were all very friendly. There were tons of great looking restaurants. If you want to do some shopping, I would definitely recommend this area. If we had not been so exhausted we would have loved to stay and browse longer.
Today was our meeting with Kai's birth family. We took a taxi from our hotel and this time took a different route . . . and ended up at the wrong place! Imagine the panic that set in when this happended. I am not exactly sure what the story is but there must be more than one place that fits Cathwel's address. When you are getting their address translated by your hotel, make sure you let them know that the address is for a location out beyond Taipei Zoo, not in town. Anyway, of course our cabbie did not speak English and I had unwisely decided that I did not need to bring their telephone number. Fortunately Adam had the number for our hotel and the cab driver had a cell phone so we could call and get a translation and explanation for our driver. We finally made it 15 minutes late! I wanted to cry!
Meetings with birthfamilies are all differnt, I am sure. I think having no expectations is your best bet. Things are what they are.
After Cathwel, we went to the Taipei 101 area. A few blocks from Taipei 101 on Xin Yi (or Hsin Yi) road is a little Fish & Chips restaurant called the Frying Scotsman. It was pretty good. A lot of the stores have English writing since that area has so many western business people. That is also the area where you are most likely to find American restaurants ( we saw subway, KFC, Chilis, Pizza Hut etc.). Taipei 101 has a shopping mall on par with our shopping malls. We went up to the top of the building, but the fog was pretty bad so we couldn't see too far. However now we can say we have been to the top of the tallest building in the world.
I will post photos of our adventures after Kai dozes off.
Yesterday was a big day. In the morning we walked the quarter of a mile or so down from our hotel to the Martyrs' Shrine. The architecture was amazing. They have a changing of the guard every hour that is a treat to see. The marching and the drill are similar to what we would see the U.S. military do with the grace of Tai Chi thrown in. Sharp, but also graceful. You will want to get there earlier than the top of the hour as the guards begin their march before the hour. I do not recommend walking to the site. The smog and congestion are heavy and if the walk had been any longer I would have been very reluctant to have Kai out in it. We took a taxi back which is easy enough to do as the taxis are everywhere.
At 11:00, Adam took the MRT down to the AIT to pick up Kai's visa. In the afternoon we took the MRT red line North to Danshui. We had to change trains at Beitou, but stayed on the red line. At Danshui the train station is waterfront on the Pacific Ocean. On the Street side of the station are a line of bus stops. The very first bus Stop is for the #26 Bus which takes you to the Fisherman's Wharf area. It has shops, a cool suspension bridge and lots of fresh ocean air. You might be surprised how welcome this is after a few days in the smog and exhaust in the city ( which is very bad, my biggest complaint, Taipei needs some environmentalists). The shopping at Fishermans wharf is not great or anything. It was just a nice walk. Kai is usually very quiet when we are outside our hotel room, but he was laughing and squirming and having a good old time. I think he really is ready for the beach life.
While at Fisherman's Wharf we were overwhelmed with hunger and stopped in at the Fisherman's Wharf Pub. They did not have western food at all and no bottled water or cokes. I ordered a Heinekin just to have something bottled and ended up with a 1 litre can!! The waitress was pretty surprised when I ordered it and I discovered why when she brought it to the table.
While dining we were treated with a live performance of Achy-Breaky Heart Taiwan style!! That song is funny in any country, but especially in Taiwan after a liter of Heinekin while STILL trying to fight jet lag!
We returned on the 26 bus to Danshui and by 6:30 the town was lit up. There was a waterside night market that included a Chinese puppetry performance of some children's musical fairytale. The people were all very friendly. There were tons of great looking restaurants. If you want to do some shopping, I would definitely recommend this area. If we had not been so exhausted we would have loved to stay and browse longer.
Today was our meeting with Kai's birth family. We took a taxi from our hotel and this time took a different route . . . and ended up at the wrong place! Imagine the panic that set in when this happended. I am not exactly sure what the story is but there must be more than one place that fits Cathwel's address. When you are getting their address translated by your hotel, make sure you let them know that the address is for a location out beyond Taipei Zoo, not in town. Anyway, of course our cabbie did not speak English and I had unwisely decided that I did not need to bring their telephone number. Fortunately Adam had the number for our hotel and the cab driver had a cell phone so we could call and get a translation and explanation for our driver. We finally made it 15 minutes late! I wanted to cry!
Meetings with birthfamilies are all differnt, I am sure. I think having no expectations is your best bet. Things are what they are.
After Cathwel, we went to the Taipei 101 area. A few blocks from Taipei 101 on Xin Yi (or Hsin Yi) road is a little Fish & Chips restaurant called the Frying Scotsman. It was pretty good. A lot of the stores have English writing since that area has so many western business people. That is also the area where you are most likely to find American restaurants ( we saw subway, KFC, Chilis, Pizza Hut etc.). Taipei 101 has a shopping mall on par with our shopping malls. We went up to the top of the building, but the fog was pretty bad so we couldn't see too far. However now we can say we have been to the top of the tallest building in the world.
I will post photos of our adventures after Kai dozes off.
Tuesday, November 08, 2005
The AIT
Whew! It has been difficult finding time to update the blog. Kai is keeping me pretty busy. For the first two days Kai was a quiet, non-fussy baby. You wouldn't know he needed a diaper change or was hungry or anything. However, last night he learned something: if he cries, he gets his way! So he has been crying all morning everytime he doesn't get his way. Believe it or not I was actually grateful to hear him wail in the middle of the night! The cycle of the baby experienceing a need, crying and then having his needs met in response to his cries, are essential components of the attachment cycle.
Yesterday was a big day. We stopped by Florida Bakery on Chung Shan N. Rd., Sec. 3 and got some pastries and croissants. Very good. I definitely recommend it if you are like me and just want a little something for breakfast. There is a Seven Eleven next door to it if you need some place to pick up bottled Coke or water. (beware the pastry items at 7-11 . . . I just picked up one that I thought looked like a Danish and it was some type of pork pastry).
Speaking of Taiwanese food, the steamed pork filled buns are SOOOO delicious. (are they dim sum?) If you see these round white buns in a bamboo steamer, get one, they are good. I am going to figure out how to make them when I get home.
After our bakery visit we took a cab to the AIT, America's non-embassy in Taiwan. We saw the big, blue signs with AIT and arrows pointing to its location so it easy to find. It would be easy to take the MRT. The Daan Park stop on the brown line is just a block or so up from the AIT. I will tell you more about the MRT in a moment. The AIT visit was easy. We were surprised that Kai already has a passport! It was an easy process. We will return today to pick up his visa. We will have an IR-3 visa so Kai will be an automatic citizen.
Taking the MRT is surprisingly easy. When you walk into a station you will see a bank of ticket machines with a fare map aove each one. The fare map shows the fare for each stop. A taiwanese lady was helpful in keeping us from adding the fare of each stop along the way to our destination. You simply look at the stop you are going to and the number on that stop is your fare for the one-way trip. It is usually between 20 to 25 NT. Then you put in the change to get your ticket. Run the ticket through the slots on the turnstiles with the green arrows (the red X's mean they are exit turnstiles). Then just follow the signs to the metros. The MRT is just like the metro in St. Louis.
Once you are on the train you can count the stops to your desitnation or just watch the screens over the doors which will show the stops written in English. You do not have to get a new ticket if you change MRT lines. Once you get to your destination you just run your ticket back through the turnstiles to exit. We are planning a trip up north using the MRT this afternoon and I will tell you all about it if it works out. It is a lot less expensive than a guided tour.
If you stay at the Grand Hotel there is shuttle that runs a loop every 20 minutes that includes a stop at Yuanshan MRT terminal. There is also a path from a hotel on the Northwest side of the hotel from the Jianten terminal.
After the AIT we took the MRT to the Chiang Kai Shek Memorial park and saw the stunning Chiang Kai Shek Memorial, the National Concert Hall and National Theatre. There is also a little garden area with a pond side walking path and Chinese style footbridge. The ponds have beautiful, brightly colored fish. Allison, there is a festival that is in the Chiang Kai Shek Memorial park next week, maybe you would like to check that out while you are here.
Kai is continuing to do well. He is getting attached and really loving being the center of attention.
Connie
Monday, November 07, 2005
Gotcha Day!
Well, Gotcha day was actually yesterday, but I kinda ran out of time to post yesterday. Kai kept us pretty busy!
Yesterday morning we took a cab to Jonah House and were there an hour early! For some reason we thought it was going to take longer to get there. Anyway, to kill some time we walked up and down the street that Jonah House was one.
A few blocks up the road was a streetfront grilled sandwich shop. We decided to stop in there. The shop was very simple, very rough. From the outside it looked like a place you might not want to eat at. But there was a long line of locals so we knew it must be pretty good. You should have seen the image of Adam standing in a crowd of Taiwanese with the lead cook yelling orders in Chinese. Adam towered above those around him and looked so out of place. I took a picture, but a picture cannot capture what it was like.
The shop owners were very nice. Adam just held up two fingers and pointed at the homemade Egg McMuffin. The shop owners' elementary shool aged boy was taking money and pouring drinks and spoke some English. We got a lot of looks and I am sure they didn't see too many Americans stopping in to eat there. The sandwiches were surprisingly excellent!
Before we left the shop Adam gave the boy a King Sized Hersheys Chocolate Bar. Characteristically the boy did not show any response or look up at Adam, but Adam said when the boy turned away he had a huge smile on his face.
Yes, Adam is really getting a kick out of handing out Hersheys' Bars as they always get a great response out of the sometimes stoic Taiwanese. They can't help smiling. Even the taxi drivers!
JONAH HOUSE
Well we rang the doorbell a few times and finally saw the call/intercom box to let them know we were there. A boy who was probably 8 years old opened the door and ushered us through the VERY quiet halls. We met Maria, the social worker who led us to the second floor nursery area. I started to cry as soon as I saw the nursery! Then through the glass we saw a caregiver lift up Kai. We recognized him right away.
Kai was cuddly, but very quiet, expressionless and calm when they handed him to us. We had about 20 minutes to hold him and kiss him. He really looked at our faces a lot. He was very curious about us.
We got our first smile out of Kai when his Daddy helped him to stand up on the floor. It was such a relief to see that smile. After spending some time holding him, we sat with Maria who reviewed Kai's schedule with us and gave us the instructions for his formula. We presented her with some candy boxes for the caregivers and then pulled out the baby items. When I pulled them out of the bag she said, "Ooooh, Gerber!". So I definitely recommend sticking with their specific requests when bringing baby items.
The care givers said their goodbyes to Kai and one of them even teared up a little. They really love the children. We were then allowed to take pictures of waiting children. We then left.
I would describe the overall experience as a quiet, gentle introduction. We had tried to have realistic expectations which I think made the experience very nice. We were there for maybe 40 minutes max.
On the cab ride Kai was still very quiet and expressionless. I was a little worried about the lack of sound and verbalization. Well, we have no worries now. Once we were settled at the hotel, Kai had gotten used to us and brightened right up. He is VERY cuddly. He did not display any symptoms of overstimulation at all. We have had no eye contact problems either. He will gaze into your eyes for long periods. I am glad as this will help with bonding. He is not fussy at all and is just adorable. He is already beginning to bond and wants to keep you in view at all times.
Kai is very strong. He is crawling and seems like he can't wait to stand up and walk.
Today we will head to the AIT for Kai's visa and then we will try and do some more sightseeing.
I think I shared pictures with everyone via snapfish, but if not, just email me and I will send you a link for our most recent pictures.
Yesterday morning we took a cab to Jonah House and were there an hour early! For some reason we thought it was going to take longer to get there. Anyway, to kill some time we walked up and down the street that Jonah House was one.
A few blocks up the road was a streetfront grilled sandwich shop. We decided to stop in there. The shop was very simple, very rough. From the outside it looked like a place you might not want to eat at. But there was a long line of locals so we knew it must be pretty good. You should have seen the image of Adam standing in a crowd of Taiwanese with the lead cook yelling orders in Chinese. Adam towered above those around him and looked so out of place. I took a picture, but a picture cannot capture what it was like.
The shop owners were very nice. Adam just held up two fingers and pointed at the homemade Egg McMuffin. The shop owners' elementary shool aged boy was taking money and pouring drinks and spoke some English. We got a lot of looks and I am sure they didn't see too many Americans stopping in to eat there. The sandwiches were surprisingly excellent!
Before we left the shop Adam gave the boy a King Sized Hersheys Chocolate Bar. Characteristically the boy did not show any response or look up at Adam, but Adam said when the boy turned away he had a huge smile on his face.
Yes, Adam is really getting a kick out of handing out Hersheys' Bars as they always get a great response out of the sometimes stoic Taiwanese. They can't help smiling. Even the taxi drivers!
JONAH HOUSE
Well we rang the doorbell a few times and finally saw the call/intercom box to let them know we were there. A boy who was probably 8 years old opened the door and ushered us through the VERY quiet halls. We met Maria, the social worker who led us to the second floor nursery area. I started to cry as soon as I saw the nursery! Then through the glass we saw a caregiver lift up Kai. We recognized him right away.
Kai was cuddly, but very quiet, expressionless and calm when they handed him to us. We had about 20 minutes to hold him and kiss him. He really looked at our faces a lot. He was very curious about us.
We got our first smile out of Kai when his Daddy helped him to stand up on the floor. It was such a relief to see that smile. After spending some time holding him, we sat with Maria who reviewed Kai's schedule with us and gave us the instructions for his formula. We presented her with some candy boxes for the caregivers and then pulled out the baby items. When I pulled them out of the bag she said, "Ooooh, Gerber!". So I definitely recommend sticking with their specific requests when bringing baby items.
The care givers said their goodbyes to Kai and one of them even teared up a little. They really love the children. We were then allowed to take pictures of waiting children. We then left.
I would describe the overall experience as a quiet, gentle introduction. We had tried to have realistic expectations which I think made the experience very nice. We were there for maybe 40 minutes max.
On the cab ride Kai was still very quiet and expressionless. I was a little worried about the lack of sound and verbalization. Well, we have no worries now. Once we were settled at the hotel, Kai had gotten used to us and brightened right up. He is VERY cuddly. He did not display any symptoms of overstimulation at all. We have had no eye contact problems either. He will gaze into your eyes for long periods. I am glad as this will help with bonding. He is not fussy at all and is just adorable. He is already beginning to bond and wants to keep you in view at all times.
Kai is very strong. He is crawling and seems like he can't wait to stand up and walk.
Today we will head to the AIT for Kai's visa and then we will try and do some more sightseeing.
I think I shared pictures with everyone via snapfish, but if not, just email me and I will send you a link for our most recent pictures.
Saturday, November 05, 2005
Night Tour
We snoozed in the afternoon today. Then we took a Taipei Night Tour. We started with a dinner at a Mongolian BarBQ restaurant tucked in an alley. It was very busy and very much a local place. A lot of families there. Adam loved it. He went back for seconds and the cook saw Adam's bowl full of pork and no vegetables and just shook his head as though to say "tourists!" Anyway, several hours later, after a vigorous tooth brushing, and some gargling Adam has the worst projectile dragon breath I have ever smelled.
Our tour guide was very friendly. He was a retired horticulturalist for Taipei and tour guiding was his second career. He had been an exchange student to Kansas State to learn agricultural methods. It certainly seems to be a smalll world. He has grown children. One of his sons was a computer engineer, 40 and unmarried with no girlfriend. Our guide said his son has poor social skills; he only talks about computers. We thought this was kinda humorous. He also has a 10 month old grandson who he described as "very cute, but also very naughty."
After dinner we visited the Tapei Center, the second tallest building in Taipei. We got a nice view of Taipei. The drive there and back also helped us to get oriented. During the drive our guide had some opinions to share about the US packing up its Navy base in Taiwan to become a friend to China.
We also visited Longshan Temple, which is a must-see, and a night market. The temple was very busy while we were there which was very interesting. There were shrines to about 25 different gods. We paid special attention to the Matchmaking God for the sake of some of our friends. The air was very thick with incense. People were kneeling, praying, giving offerings of fruits (Buddha is apparently a vegetarian), and were also dropping these plates to find out the answers to questions . (Kind of like flipping a coin). The building was constructed in the 1700s. It was beautiful. The pictures above don't do it justice.
The Night market was our final stop it is very much like a flea market. We saw some pretty offensive key chains with some outrageous depictions that we decided would NOT make good gifts for any of you. We also checked out the snake shops where they hung dead and live snakes and sold snake meat and various other snake items. There were a few shops that had more unique items. Overall it was a good experience, but I would be fine without going to another night market.
This was a nice tour to do as something easy to just get an overview of some of Taipei's highlights. I would recommend it if it falls in the right place in your itinerary.
Photos
This is the view from the balcony in our room.
The decor is intricate inside and out. The photo above shows a beautiful carved ceiling.
The gate to the Grand.
Umm, this picture just looks funny. Adam is holding a rolled up hot towel they hand out for cleaning your hands before the meals.
video clip in flight
Here is video we shot while on the plane to Taipei.
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WE'RE HERE!!
Well, we made it. I have to say 14 hours is a loooong flight.
REVIEW of EVA and LAX
We are so glad we upgraded to Evergreen Deluxe on EVA as we found it very comfortable. We were able to sleep pretty easily and comfortably. The plane was very clean with plenty of bathrooms. The plane was pretty quiet and it was a smooth flight. We also generally felt that the surrounding passengers who were almost all Chinese were fastidiusly clean, neat and courteous to those around them. Very pleasant people.
EVA provided meals that were fairly hearty. We were STARVING. --One thing we learned about the International Terminal at LAX; they don't have food down by the gates. We bypassed some nice looking restaurants at the terminal thinking there would be places near the gate after security like there are in most other airports.
Anyway, EVA served food that appealed to both Western and Eastern tastes and we thought it was good. They served dinner with wine, a "midnight" snack of beef and noodles and then a late breakfast. They do not serve a lot of drinks, even the ones served with meals are not quite adequate. Also they did not seem to have any coke. We each brought a huge water bottle and definitely needed it as the air was very dry. So bring water on the plane. Also we wished we had eye drops.
EVA has tvs with several channels to entertain passengers and they also have a channel that continually updates the altitude, time, outside temperature, time remaining in trip , and track. You can watch a little plane fly across a map.
NAVIGATING CHIANG KAI SHEK AIRPORT
There are plenty of signs in English to get you around pretty easily. It did not take us long to find each stop. We changed our currency at the airport as we understood it would have the best rate, but our hotel has a better exchange rate for US dollars. We got to the airport early enough in the morning that there was no one working at the Tourist Information Booth so therefore, no one to direct us on taking the bus to the hotel. So we ended up taking our first cab ride in Taipei. NO SEATBELTS and some crazy driving, but we survived. If I could have done it over I would have booked the hotel shuttle. I don't know why I didn't. The cab was 1400 NT
THE GRAND
We arrived at around 8 am, but our room was not going to be ready until 10. We were exhausted and feeling like we just wanted to shower and nap a little. We had a nice time looking at the Hotel. It is SO cool to see in person. Our room has two double beds so we were able to get away with one room for the three of us. We are on a balcony that has a beautiful view. Definitely worth it in my opinion.
ENGLISH SPEAKERS IN TAIPEI?
Not many. There are some staff people at the hotel that speak English. However, the concierge just called to confirm the tour we booked and said, "Could you bring kung pao later?" I said sure, but I don't know what that means! So definitely be prepared to speak the universal language of pointing, nodding and taking a leap of faith that you have managed to communicate with one another.
Tonight we will be doing a guided tour since we are tired. We will see a temple, a night market, Taipei 101 and eat dinner. Then we will back at the hotel to prepare everything for our trip to Jonah house tomorrow.
Thanks for all your prayers and good wishes. I am posting photos soon!
REVIEW of EVA and LAX
We are so glad we upgraded to Evergreen Deluxe on EVA as we found it very comfortable. We were able to sleep pretty easily and comfortably. The plane was very clean with plenty of bathrooms. The plane was pretty quiet and it was a smooth flight. We also generally felt that the surrounding passengers who were almost all Chinese were fastidiusly clean, neat and courteous to those around them. Very pleasant people.
EVA provided meals that were fairly hearty. We were STARVING. --One thing we learned about the International Terminal at LAX; they don't have food down by the gates. We bypassed some nice looking restaurants at the terminal thinking there would be places near the gate after security like there are in most other airports.
Anyway, EVA served food that appealed to both Western and Eastern tastes and we thought it was good. They served dinner with wine, a "midnight" snack of beef and noodles and then a late breakfast. They do not serve a lot of drinks, even the ones served with meals are not quite adequate. Also they did not seem to have any coke. We each brought a huge water bottle and definitely needed it as the air was very dry. So bring water on the plane. Also we wished we had eye drops.
EVA has tvs with several channels to entertain passengers and they also have a channel that continually updates the altitude, time, outside temperature, time remaining in trip , and track. You can watch a little plane fly across a map.
NAVIGATING CHIANG KAI SHEK AIRPORT
There are plenty of signs in English to get you around pretty easily. It did not take us long to find each stop. We changed our currency at the airport as we understood it would have the best rate, but our hotel has a better exchange rate for US dollars. We got to the airport early enough in the morning that there was no one working at the Tourist Information Booth so therefore, no one to direct us on taking the bus to the hotel. So we ended up taking our first cab ride in Taipei. NO SEATBELTS and some crazy driving, but we survived. If I could have done it over I would have booked the hotel shuttle. I don't know why I didn't. The cab was 1400 NT
THE GRAND
We arrived at around 8 am, but our room was not going to be ready until 10. We were exhausted and feeling like we just wanted to shower and nap a little. We had a nice time looking at the Hotel. It is SO cool to see in person. Our room has two double beds so we were able to get away with one room for the three of us. We are on a balcony that has a beautiful view. Definitely worth it in my opinion.
ENGLISH SPEAKERS IN TAIPEI?
Not many. There are some staff people at the hotel that speak English. However, the concierge just called to confirm the tour we booked and said, "Could you bring kung pao later?" I said sure, but I don't know what that means! So definitely be prepared to speak the universal language of pointing, nodding and taking a leap of faith that you have managed to communicate with one another.
Tonight we will be doing a guided tour since we are tired. We will see a temple, a night market, Taipei 101 and eat dinner. Then we will back at the hotel to prepare everything for our trip to Jonah house tomorrow.
Thanks for all your prayers and good wishes. I am posting photos soon!
Friday, November 04, 2005
We made it to LAX.
Hi all,
We have made it to LAX safe and sound. The flight to Atlanta and the flight to LA were both pretty smooth. As usual they serve little to no food on the flights so we were a little starved by the time we made it here, otherwise we are doing well enough. We have settled in at our gate to wait for our flight to Taipei. It has been a long day already not including the additional 14 hours ahead of us. I sure hope we can check in early at our hotel.
Our trip started out a little rough. We parked in long term parking at Tampa, loaded up all the baggage and got on the monorail to take us to the terminal. The monorail has very short loading and unloading time at each stopp so when we boarded only Mom and I made it on the first time. Adam had to wait for the next one. Then Mom and I got off a few stops later . . . at the wrong stop. Then we got back on the next monorail where we reunited with Adam. Then we rode back around to the right stop, but this time only Mom and I made it off and Adam was stuck riding the whole route again. We got a good laugh out of the whole thing since we could have just walked to the terminal easily enough as each stop was only 30 feet from the next.
Here are a few pictures including a picture of Adam finally making it off the monorail! It has been pretty uneventful so far, but I had to pay $10 for internet access in LAX so I thought I might as well get my money's worth. :)
Thursday, November 03, 2005
Todays the day!
Well, we are all ready to go. We are just killing time until it is time to go to the airport. My mom came up last night so that we can go to the airpot together today. My mom and dad's store is next door to a Chinese reastuarant. The restaurant owners are from Taiwan! They gave us some good advice. They told us that at the night markets the real price of any item is usually half of what the vendor claims is the price.
My mom asked their Chinese neighbors to write some important phrases in Chinese for us on notecards so we could communicate. So mom wrote out several phrases in English for them to translate such as "Where is the train station?" or "I need to buy baby formula." They were happy to help us, but when they came to the notecard that said "We do not speak Chinese" they just started laughing. I guess they are thinking we won't have any trouble convincing people we don't speak Chinese!!
Next time we post will be when we are in LA waiting for our fight to Taiwan.
My mom asked their Chinese neighbors to write some important phrases in Chinese for us on notecards so we could communicate. So mom wrote out several phrases in English for them to translate such as "Where is the train station?" or "I need to buy baby formula." They were happy to help us, but when they came to the notecard that said "We do not speak Chinese" they just started laughing. I guess they are thinking we won't have any trouble convincing people we don't speak Chinese!!
Next time we post will be when we are in LA waiting for our fight to Taiwan.
Time
By the way, No, I did not post that last post at 1 AM. I have the blog set to Taipei time. So It is 1 am in Taipei, 1 p.m. eastern Standard time in the U.S.
It hit me this morning . . .
I have to be honest and say I have not been too excited thus far about traveling to Taipei. What I mean is, I have gotten so used to waiting and waiting and waiting and so used to Gotcha Day being something so far off in the future. As a result, I have just been feeling so patient and not nervous at all. People keep saying, "You must be so excited." I respond with a yes, but have not experienced that jittery nervous excitement.
Until this morning. I woke up today and the first thought in my head was, "I am gong to see Kai!" It is hitting me now, the panic, the excitement, the nervousness. This is our last day before we fly out. The last day to get everything prepared and run all the last minute errands before we head to the ariport tomorrow.
My husband just walked through the living room and yelled "28 hours until take-off!!!!" So I guess it is really hitting him this morning too!
Until this morning. I woke up today and the first thought in my head was, "I am gong to see Kai!" It is hitting me now, the panic, the excitement, the nervousness. This is our last day before we fly out. The last day to get everything prepared and run all the last minute errands before we head to the ariport tomorrow.
My husband just walked through the living room and yelled "28 hours until take-off!!!!" So I guess it is really hitting him this morning too!
Monday, October 31, 2005
Packing, packing and more packing!
Well, we have spent the afternoon packing every item imaginiable for our trip. Since we are first-time parents we have no clue how much stuff Kai will need each day so we have packed tons of diapers, onesies, baby food, and toys. We have two large, rolling suitcases and one of them is full of baby items. We have done our best to get all of our personal items in the second suitcase. We have managed, but we are cutting it close on the weight limit for the second suitcase.
We have yet to complete packing our carry-ons. We are bringing all kinds of cameras, laptops, MP3 players etc. along with snacks, the essential adoption paperwork and a change of clothes in case our checked bags get lost or misdirected.
I would definitely recommend making your best effort to pack everything up completely the weekend before flying out (or several days before) as it has been surprising how long this has taken. It also gives us the opportunity to realize that if we pack all the socks we will go through during our trip, we don't have any left to wear before we leave! =) So we have made a list of the items we are realizing we still need and fortunately we have time to pick them up before we head out.
We have downloaded an Audiobook to the Iriver that is 10 hours long to keep us entertained on our flight over. I have also confirmed that the airports we will be at are WiFi airports so we will be able to check email and update our blog while we are waiting for our next flight.
I have the next few days to finalize a itinerary for our stay in Taiwan. I am a little afraid that if I don't write my "list" I will forget something critical, like "Pick up Kai at Jonah House." (Amanda, you will understand this!).
The toughest thing I have been worrying over and procrastinating has been the gifts. Since Taiwan is a gift-giving culture, we want to honor that and be prepared with gifts for the people who have done so much for Kai and the children of Taiwan. It has been difficult to decide what to give that will be appropriate. I have decided on chocolates and needed baby items for Jonah House and a picture frame with pictures of us, Kai and Kai's birthmother for the birthmother.
Well, I better get back to work.
We have yet to complete packing our carry-ons. We are bringing all kinds of cameras, laptops, MP3 players etc. along with snacks, the essential adoption paperwork and a change of clothes in case our checked bags get lost or misdirected.
I would definitely recommend making your best effort to pack everything up completely the weekend before flying out (or several days before) as it has been surprising how long this has taken. It also gives us the opportunity to realize that if we pack all the socks we will go through during our trip, we don't have any left to wear before we leave! =) So we have made a list of the items we are realizing we still need and fortunately we have time to pick them up before we head out.
We have downloaded an Audiobook to the Iriver that is 10 hours long to keep us entertained on our flight over. I have also confirmed that the airports we will be at are WiFi airports so we will be able to check email and update our blog while we are waiting for our next flight.
I have the next few days to finalize a itinerary for our stay in Taiwan. I am a little afraid that if I don't write my "list" I will forget something critical, like "Pick up Kai at Jonah House." (Amanda, you will understand this!).
The toughest thing I have been worrying over and procrastinating has been the gifts. Since Taiwan is a gift-giving culture, we want to honor that and be prepared with gifts for the people who have done so much for Kai and the children of Taiwan. It has been difficult to decide what to give that will be appropriate. I have decided on chocolates and needed baby items for Jonah House and a picture frame with pictures of us, Kai and Kai's birthmother for the birthmother.
Well, I better get back to work.
Saturday, October 29, 2005
Wednesday, October 26, 2005
Tuesday, October 18, 2005
Travel Plans!
Well, our travel plans are well under way. We have bought upgraded seats on our flight to Taipei from LAX so that the 14 hours in the air won't be too uncomfortable. On the way back we will have a bassinet for Kai. I do not enjoy flying so I am working on having plenty of things to do to take my mind of the flight and pass the long hours.
We have booked some rooms at The Grand Hotel in Taipei. It is considered a historical landmark in Taiwan and is just beautiful. It is somewhat on the outskirts of Taipei and has spectacular views of the city and the mountains. It is also quite close to some sights we hope to visit while we are there.
We are hashing out a sightseeing itinerary because we want to get to know Kai's birthplace. The tallest building in the World, Taipei 101, is on the list as well as a number of temples, shrines, art and history museums, and the Botanical Gardens. We are hoping we will be able to tour the coastline. It is supposed to be gorgeous. Of course all this will depend on how well Kai adjusts to being with his mom and dad full time. He appears to be such a laidback baby in all of his pictures and has been described as content so I think he will be fine. (I am much more worried about how I will adjust! I have to admit I do not think I have ever changed a diaper in my life so I am in for it).
The weather looks as though it is very similar to our weather in Florida. The daily high is 75 in November with a low of 64 in the evenings. That makes it pretty easy to pack aside from remembering to pack all the baby items and comfort items we will want once we are there.
A dear friend, Kelly R., is in Taiwan right now uniting with her daughter at Cathwel Services and was so nice to take a few photos of Kai. It means so much to have received the photos of Kai from Cathwel and others over the months that we have been waiting for the court process to conclude. I hope we will be able to do the same for other waitng families when we travel in a mere 2.5 weeks.
We have booked some rooms at The Grand Hotel in Taipei. It is considered a historical landmark in Taiwan and is just beautiful. It is somewhat on the outskirts of Taipei and has spectacular views of the city and the mountains. It is also quite close to some sights we hope to visit while we are there.
We are hashing out a sightseeing itinerary because we want to get to know Kai's birthplace. The tallest building in the World, Taipei 101, is on the list as well as a number of temples, shrines, art and history museums, and the Botanical Gardens. We are hoping we will be able to tour the coastline. It is supposed to be gorgeous. Of course all this will depend on how well Kai adjusts to being with his mom and dad full time. He appears to be such a laidback baby in all of his pictures and has been described as content so I think he will be fine. (I am much more worried about how I will adjust! I have to admit I do not think I have ever changed a diaper in my life so I am in for it).
The weather looks as though it is very similar to our weather in Florida. The daily high is 75 in November with a low of 64 in the evenings. That makes it pretty easy to pack aside from remembering to pack all the baby items and comfort items we will want once we are there.
A dear friend, Kelly R., is in Taiwan right now uniting with her daughter at Cathwel Services and was so nice to take a few photos of Kai. It means so much to have received the photos of Kai from Cathwel and others over the months that we have been waiting for the court process to conclude. I hope we will be able to do the same for other waitng families when we travel in a mere 2.5 weeks.
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